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Oppositional Defiant Disorder reared its head in several areas of Kristen’s life. Any time an adult would ask her to do something, she’d refuse—regardless of the cost to herself or her health. Since her blood sugar levels were constantly low in school, the nurse recommended that Kristen check her level before class. Kristen informed me that even though she knew it was a good idea to check her blood sugar, she wouldn’t do it because the nurse had asked her to.
In order to avoid following directions, Kirsten became a skillful manipulator. She would blame the school staff for her behavior, knowing that her mother would take her side. At home, Kirsten would use her diabetes as an excuse to not do her homework, or would stay in bed faking high blood sugars to avoid school. It wasn’t until Kristen’s mother caught her faking low blood sugar that she brought her to me.
But Kristen wasn’t just shirking responsibility—she was dangerously apathetic. As with other ODD patients, Kristen was aware of the negative consequences of her behavior, but still couldn’t bring herself to follow directions. In our sessions, Kristen expressed every intention of doing her work going to school, and taking care of herself—but once a parent, teacher or doctor told her to do those things, it was as if someone had flipped a switch. Kristen would go to her room and spend the rest of the night doing nothing at all.
If you have a family member with Oppositional Defiant Disorder in conjunction with diabetes, you know how confusing, frustrating and terrifying it can be. ODD is not well understood, and children suffering from it are often mislabeled as selfish or bratty. Kristen actually is a very smart girl. She wants and knows how to take care of her diabetes. It’s her depression and Oppositional Defiant Disorder that keep getting in her way.
If you are raising a child with ODD and diabetes, here are some things to remember:
Do you have a child with Oppositional Defiant Disorder and diabetes? Share your experiences in the comments section.
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